RELATIONSHIP COMPARTIBILITY
A Nigerian religious Guy by name Mr Orji, butresses soo much facts about relationships of nowadays. He further elaborated that the original purpose of relationships is being defeated and should be reinstated back but he cannot do it on his own.Below is the copy of the Whatsapp chats 👇 👇 👇
[5/13, 18:52] +234 806 554 9856: Tonight we are going to conclude our discuss on Compatibility.
*You can’t afford to ignore what God is about to make you understand. *
8pm we will be here. God bless you!
[5/13, 19:36] +234 806 554 9856: *One of the worst things you can do to a woman is to take her out of her father's house and make her live single as your wife.*
*Don't set her free if you're going to put her in chains. *
_Relationship Compatibility, the physical stage._
*8pm prompt*
[5/13, 20:06] +234 806 554 9856: Hello my people...
I am excited to be bringing this very important subject to an end tonight..
We are going to be looking at a very important aspect or stage of Compatibility in relationship.
Shall we?🖐🏼
[5/13, 20:24] +234 806 554 9856: Alright let us pray!
Thank you Jesus for all that you have taught us so far. We return all the glory to you.
The grace not to be the hearer of your words alone but also the doer of it we ask that you bestow upon us In Jesus name we pray amen.
Holy Spirit enjoy yourself in the house tonight.
[5/13, 20:29] +234 806 554 9856: All through our discuss on Compatibility; We have talked about the important of understanding Compatibility stage base stage.
[5/13, 20:30] +234 806 554 9856: Stage by stage*
[5/13, 20:31] +234 806 554 9856: We started we the first stage which is spiritual Compatibility.
Where we were able to understand that it must be established first. So important, we understand if he/she believes in the God you believe in.
[5/13, 20:34] +234 806 554 9856: We also went ahead to discuss the next stage of Compatibility. Mindset or soulical level.
Where purpose, motivation, intellectuals, goals etc must be understand and checkmate to make sure it relates and can sub under God’s mission for each other.
[5/13, 20:38] +234 806 554 9856: Tonight we are going to be looking at physical aspect of Compatibility.
*This is where romance, emotional entanglement, family goals and family finance comes into play. *
And this is the marriage stage or engagement stage.
[5/13, 20:41] +234 806 554 9856: But now you can see the devils agenda.
Look at the world today, the reverse is becoming the case of this order we have discussed all this while.
What is meant to be the last stage of relationship is being served even before the relationship itself has been established..
[5/13, 20:42] +234 806 554 9856: *Some even use it as a starting point.*
[5/13, 20:46] +234 806 554 9856: How do you sit down with a new new relationship to talk about "no sex in the relationship" before marriage?
How did it feel? Was it not awkward for you two?
Like for two believers to sit down to discuss about agreeing to an instruction that is supposed to be obeyed by default?🤷🏾♂
Ussshhhh! Especially when the 'i love you' somebody will be like;
"okay, how about kissing? Small kissing o, so we won't touch at all? Small romance nko? Sleeping over sometimes nko? How do we now understand each other if we don't do this?"
Hehehehe, i don't understand this people sometimes, is it the lips and buttocks you want to understand or the character?
[5/13, 20:54] +234 806 554 9856: That’s the devil trying to establish his own order...
[5/13, 20:56] +234 806 554 9856: Because he knows if he can get you to reverse God’s, it will be so easy for him to dwell in the relationship.
I am here to tell you he has failed.... don’t give in to that rubbish ideal of understanding...
[5/13, 20:56] +234 806 554 9856: God’s order*
[5/13, 20:57] +234 806 554 9856: The one that baffles me most is my fine girls that even reverse the order even before the relationship itself has started🤦♂
[5/13, 20:58] +234 806 554 9856: How many of us can relate to this:
Ok you met this charming, tall, dark and handsome gentleman the other day, today he's calling you every 15 minutes and sending you tushed love messages, and YOU SAID NOTHING!
[5/13, 20:59] +234 806 554 9856: He is taking you out and spending big on expensive dates and gift presents, YOU SAID NOTHING!
He is inviting you over for a good time at his place, you accepted, and SAID NOTHING!
[5/13, 21:01] +234 806 554 9856: He came closer, and YOU SAID NOTHING!
He is having his hands warmly all over you and you still sat there and SAID NOTHING!
He got your adrenaline bubbling, high on emotions, pants down, ate the cake, and even forget to say thank you, you sat there breathless and still SAID NOTHING!
[5/13, 21:03] +234 806 554 9856: .......5 minutes after the excitement you look at the tired young man in the eyes and say:
*"Ekene, WHAT ARE WE NOW?"*
[5/13, 21:05] +234 806 554 9856: My own question is Aunty, what is doing you?
Is it from the village or from the city or abroad?
[5/13, 21:05] +234 806 554 9856: Eeehhn? Like are your seriously asking him the question? What are we now? Okay we are two black birds sitting sitting on the wall, one name Peter and one name Ekaette, or what exactly do you expect a man to say in that position?
[5/13, 21:07] +234 806 554 9856: When the call and messages are getting interesting you didn't ask him that question, when he was buying you gifts and taking you out on expensive dates you said nothing, when he was reaching for your pants you kept quite, so WHY NOW? WHY AFTER EDEN?
[5/13, 21:09] +234 806 554 9856: Oh dear, it's a gigantic error to define "what are we" after the desired has been acquired, that is the first thing you do when you start noticing that things are getting serious, and not after the cake has been served. Even when you ask and he mumbles some sweet words like he is ready to commit it is not real, anything a man says after that is said out of the intention not to hurt your feelings.
Some of us just make the Devils work so easy for him. How do you start a relationship with sex. What God has already commanded you flee from?
[5/13, 21:12] +234 806 554 9856: Follow God’s order my people. It’s for your own good.
If this message is biting down your conscience please do not sit there and pity yourself, we all have made big mistakes and wrong decisions in life, learn from it.
Relationship are meant to be defined at the earliest stage possible, limits are set, boundaries are marked, missions are clearly stated and intentions are revealed.
[5/13, 21:13] +234 806 554 9856: Oh! How I wish I have got everybody in the world to know this truth..
My people perish because of lack knowledge.
[5/13, 21:15] +234 806 554 9856: They will tell me, Orji, "You know I have to study her very well to see if she is homely, can cook, can do house chores, etc you know before buying a car you have to test it to know if the engine is good."
Mmmcheeew, Weldon uncle tester, who is studying you to see if you have the potential to make money and provide her with all the comfort she needs?
It's not when you will study somebody daughter finish and go and put her inside one “face me I face you house”.
I hope central bank is also testing you?
[5/13, 21:17] +234 806 554 9856: Most men agree to "No Sex" from the start because they believe in the long run you will become flexible and start mellowing down little by little by each day.
They believe that later you will start accepting small small pecks, from small pecks to small small kisses, from small kisses to small small romance, from small romance pants will come off without them entering, from there GBAM! They are in and before you realize what you are doing it has turned into an everyday routine. My fine girls I know all this method.
[5/13, 21:18] +234 806 554 9856: These days he devil goes on holiday every week, his job is becoming easier for him by the second, all he has to do to get us is to put us into one bad sexual relationship, and that is it, he leaves us there and walks away with a smile, because he knows that we will self destruct.
[5/13, 21:19] +234 806 554 9856: If he can get you to start that sexual journey, the further you will draw away from God, and the more difficult it will be for you to get back. What is bad is bad and what is good is good. No matter the excuse you want to give for it.
[5/13, 21:22] +234 806 554 9856: So hold on to God’s order ok?
This is the biggest message He has given me to teach us.
He wants the best for you. He want to dwell in your own. Don’t use your hands to chase Him away.
Don't let the devil win, define that relationship from the start and Stand by your decision to follow God’s order and hold out until marriage, if he agrees to take this journey with you, hallelujah.
[5/13, 21:22] +234 806 554 9856: If he starts persuading you to give in, remind him of the decision he took and the choice he made from the start, and encourage him to hold out with you.
do not be quick to cast him away. Anyone can be tempted, sometimes he might not know what he is doing, it might just be the devil Messing with his emotions, even for believers too, we get into these situations sometimes, try to get his head out of that cloud, by encouraging him to channel that sexual urge into chasing God.
[5/13, 21:24] +234 806 554 9856: But if he is still acting up after you have done all you can, if he starts giving you attitude because you wouldn't give in, if he keeps pressurizing you for sex as a proof of your love, if he starts threatening to leave if you don't do it, then let him go sweetheart, *a man that can not discipline it sexual urge will definitely not be faithful to his marriage. *
[5/13, 21:25] +234 806 554 9856: My Fine girls, the good ones do not struggle to take what is already theirs. Its impossible for you to struggle for a good man.
You don't get in life what you want, you get in life what you are.
It's better to disappoint him, than to offend God.
So, pick yourself up with your next love encounter, and set things right! Don't worry, you'll be alright.
[5/13, 21:31] +234 806 554 9856: Please write this down somewhere if you can:
Orji is a devoted Christian doesn't imply that Orji and I are compatible for marriage. That Orji is good for me doesn't make Orji right for me. Yes, been a Christian makes him a good option for me, been a believer makes him an option to choose from but even as a believer he has to be right for me. First he has to be good in other for him to be an option then he has to be right in other for me to make him a life decision.
[5/13, 21:34] +234 806 554 9856: It’s about marriage; many ladies are just anxious for nothing.
What is marriage if you are not happy?🤷🏾♂
Take your time to make sure if he is right for you. Keep your butterfly feelings at home and make a factual decision. Love is never enough.
Ask yourself this questions:
*Is he emotional mature for marriage?*
[5/13, 21:36] +234 806 554 9856: It’s one thing to have money in abundant (Financial maturity), but it’s another thing to know how to treat your spouse *bountifully in abundant.*
[5/13, 21:39] +234 806 554 9856: Another question is this:
*What are the his plan with you?*
Is he the type that believes in house wife and nothing more, is that what you want?
This is very important before you will go and become a prisoner.
I use to tell my fellow guys this: *One of the worst things you can do to a woman is to take her out of her father's house and make her live single as your wife.*
*Don't set her free if you're going to put her in chains. *
[5/13, 21:47] +234 806 554 9856: You are a woman, you need to be “woo” always. When you find that man that understands this duty then you have found a goal.
That man that will treat you like a Queen all the rest of his life. Oh ratabarahsbeta....
That is why “Wo” is part of the name woman.
[5/13, 21:49] +234 806 554 9856: I am running out of time tonight.
Let me quickly share this before we call it a day tonight.
[5/13, 21:52] +234 806 554 9856: You may be incredibly sexy and great in bed. You may be a master chef with a degree in cookery. Our mother might like you and our sisters can be very fond of you. We may call you all the time and text you frequently all day.
However, all that is still not enough reason to make a good man want to marry you. In fact, it has little to do with our decision.
[5/13, 21:52] +234 806 554 9856: Let me just make this simple for you;
"The most important factors we consider when deciding whether we want to spend the rest of our life with you happens *OUTSIDE* the bedroom, not inside";
[5/13, 21:53] +234 806 554 9856: We marry women who can make us better men, women who make us look better and feel better than when we were single. And that does not happen in the bedroom.
[5/13, 21:53] +234 806 554 9856: It starts out when we start noticing that our car and our house is cleaner, not because you do the chores for us, no, but because you encourage us to do it ourselves.
[5/13, 21:54] +234 806 554 9856: We notice the way we dress, the way we smell good, and the way we start becoming conscious of our behaviour in and around people, because we know we have to represent you well.
[5/13, 21:54] +234 806 554 9856: We notice when we always want to share our ideas and important plans with you, because your advice and opinions always brings out the best in everything.
[5/13, 21:55] +234 806 554 9856: We notice how our relationship with other people seems to become better, because you have rubbed your noble quality on us
[5/13, 21:55] +234 806 554 9856: We notice how we start making conscious efforts to maintain our relationship with God, because we have seen the evidence of God's grace in and around you.
[5/13, 21:57] +234 806 554 9856: We always know when you're praying for us aunty, some time ago i asked my married friend how he knew that his wife was praying for him, with a deep confident smile he said;
"because God answers my prayers faster than when i was still a bachelor."
... I haven't yet recovered from the rhema that came with that answer.
[5/13, 21:57] +234 806 554 9856: The point is:
My fine girls we always know the woman that makes our life better, and the one that makes our bed exciting, WHICH WOMAN ARE YOU?
[5/13, 22:00] +234 806 554 9856: Have you been wondering why you've not been able to keep him with all the good sex, cooking skills and house girl spirit you have been displaying in his house?
It is because you add no value to his life outside the bedroom, am sorry if i have hurt your feelings with this tonight, but somebody has to wake you up my fine girl, so which one are you? Hmmm 😔😔
Why not try God’s order?
Spiritual Compatibility first!
Soulical Compatibility Second!
Then Physical Compatibility (engagement).
[5/13, 22:03] +234 806 554 9856: Be a woman of God’s principle and find somebody who believes in your principle.
You can not use spirituality to cover hard-work.
*I want to fall in love with a person that is in love with God. *
[5/13, 22:04] +234 806 554 9856: *DATE AND MARRY YOUR KIND*
[5/13, 22:06] +234 806 554 9856: My time has been fast spent.
Glory to God almighty for bringing us thus far. I am sure you were blessed tonight.
Your questions and contributions are always welcome. Don’t forget, feel free to inbox me personally if you can’t communicate the subject openly here.
written by Mr Orji
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